a few photos we have taken in Shiyan

Brother's call

my brother called me this evening, he verified that my wife Lvlu is pregnant , then he told me don't forget to comfort her, and I should say the words what a husband who is expecting a son or daughter soon shall say to his wife. I am pleased that my brother care for me , and as what I had promised to my brother I will inform mom that my wife has conceived a new life in her womb 2 or 3 months later if everything goes well.

stay at a terrible hotel this evening in JingZhou

I am killing time in a terrible room of Aug. 1st Hotel near JinWei Hotel now,the charge is not high, only 80 RMB, but there are lots of big mosquitoes, their crashed bodies are shown on the surface of the white walls, in addition, there is at least one mouse sharing this room with me. I wish to leave this room ASAP,wish day break very soon. Although the mouse I saw was a little one, but its unexpected appearance really startled my heart. I must pay attention to the sanitation after this terrible experience.

Lvlu is back today !

Lvlu came back this evening, her mother was also with her. I was so glad to hear this news and went to the bus stop to pick them up. after all she is my wife. in my eyes she is pretty. Wang xiaofei also went there to pick them up, we carried the luggage to Xiaofei's place, our two wedding albums were finished and we enjoyed those photos with great pleasure.Mom and Lvlu will stay at Wang xiaofei's place within the following weeks, I think they will come to our apartment very soon.

Dec.6

When Lvlu is away , I feel lonely, I hope to read and wish I could be interested in reading, but I rarely read anything today! my neck and my waist are very sour. what a terrible day today is!

结婚了

这个国庆，我们放假时间很长，我请了婚嫁回十堰结婚，小吕请的是探亲假，我还从没有用过这种假呢！准备了结婚用的衣服，买了婚戒，房子装修了，明天就乘车和露露一起回十堰，我们的婚礼主要在十堰办，河南老家也有人来.

a few words

she said I should cherish her, otherwise she could leave me. I should try to understand her feeling and care of her. she is my girlfriend after all.
the world is amazingly wonderful, every life is a mystery indeed. should respect life.

we are here by luck

living on the earth is a wonder , we are here totally by accident and luck.
observe the world like a little child.

incident happens to me

damn, today when I played basketball in the playground of New Jianghan university, all my keys were stolen by some devil, I don't know if he did this on purpose. my bike was locked there, I could not ride my bicycle then, I also lost the key to open my apartment , damn! I am not able to open the gate on the first floor ,either, because that key was also gone. fortunately I left one spare key in my office in Dongfeng die & stamping company, after leaving my bike locked in New Jianghan university, I walk back to the neighbourhood where I live, and with the help of Xiaolun,Yangxiaoqin, I could call Chenyang, and Chenyang lent his key for office to me, so I could walk to my office to get my spare key of my apartment, finally I could open the gate of my house , I tried to find out other spare keys for my bike, for my apartment, then I went to New Jianghan university to get my bike, after all these things been done, it was already about half past eleven P.M., I was tired, but I solved those problems anyway . I realized how awful things could become even though only a small incident happened.

我的爱，握紧你的手

和你发生了关系，我希望能长久地和你生活在一起，我应该知足。

初吻 first kiss

I kissed a girl today, it's my first kiss. not got excited with it. the girl was good to me, she did not want to hurt my feeling , she responded me, we danced all night. the weather is hot outside. the music were played by ColdPlay, we were intoxicated , at least ,I were.

很多真情，蕴藏在激情／平淡的叙述和对话中

辛夷坞的《致我们终将逝去的青春》中充满着真情，作者对生活挺有体验。

终将逝去的青春

这个《致我们终将逝去的青春》有声书里的人物让人觉得很多年轻人的感情很真挚，充满血性和活力，生命应该是这样，尤其是年轻的生命。

getting older......

what's new in my life recently? I feel my life is kept in stillness, nothing new happens it seems, I am getting tired and tired.
she is still a stranger to me, wish she could show more passion to me, I need the the blood and flesh.

help from whirlpool after-sale service

很高兴昨天还在烦恼我的洗衣机只进水不洗涤问题，今天通过一个电话就当天解决了。感觉真好。他们太有效率了，don't forget that today is dragon boat festival in china, they are efficient! I called to a CR , the miss asked me where I am living ,and then several hours later, a technician came to my house and solve the problem quickly, and they didn't charge me any fee. 当时买全球排行第一的惠而浦品牌，真的没错，要的就是“售后服务”。 thank you so much. the washing machine works normally again!

从噩梦中醒来

中午午休睡在蚊帐里，窗户又开得很小，结果我又被梦魇困住，几乎喘不过气，几乎窒息。醒来后要立即喝水，坐在椅子上定了半天神才好些。回顾自己的呆板的生活，没有生命，血迹的参与，很僵硬。需要一个女人进入我的生活！

死后余生之感 救助和自救

虽然自己和家人在这次大地震中无恙，总感觉那些失去生命、亲人朋友和家园的父老乡亲的悲哀，不禁感叹良久。 各阶层的社会力量都在行动，在帮助不幸的同胞恢复创伤。灾难是深刻的，永远无法忘记。同情、资助是感人的，做为一个社会整体，这些行动将会被铭记。

快乐的读书生活

现在周末基本保证了自由休息的时间，我可以任意安排自己的假日生活，可以看书，睡觉，精神很好。读书累了睡一下，起来再读，困了再睡会儿，然后起来再看书，这样的日子真的很好！

go forward , not go backwards

要向前看，不要向后看。
it is very important, don't be afraid, don't be dared by some unavoidable difficulties.

God! life is so fragile !

what is the meaning of individual living?
is its only purpose to guarantee the existence of human beings in universe?
if so, earthquake's wiping out 50,000 people in ShiChuan province will not be an important event, but from the victims' families , friends' point of view, their losses are huge.
life is so fragile! incredible!

Fedora 9 sulphur, expect great features presented

today I finished the downloading and installation of F9, I hope there will be tons of wonderful features waiting for me, I enjoy the exploration and experiencing new things! if only I could installed this system into my laptop pc, then it will be perfect!

earthquake - a disaster

there is no television set in my place, so I don't know what is going on there when lots of people are trying to get out the difficult situation. but I knew many people have lost their lives, hundreds and thousands of them! if this happens to me or to my family or my friends , what will be the impact to me! people are not able to bear so terrible nightmare! they really need our help!

why hasn't she got married yet

she is absolutely beautiful, I don't know why she hasn't got married yet. she must has her untold story, my ex-colleague is one of her admirers , it is his admiration to her makes her more attractive to me.
every girls or women who I have admired should have the characteristics of sublimes , they should be goddesses before they can be admired. once they become sublime ,they should not be touched , they only can be admired from a distance. goddess should not be wife, with whom a man spend much of his time living together.to find a woman be my wife seems to be an assignment which should only be accomplished in secular world.

why we human beings need have dinner every day?

I am in a six day vacation now, I am relaxed and can do thing randomly. there is much time I can allocate , but breakfast,lunch and supper are the necessary rutine I can not avoid, I always feel them come too fast everyday, sadly ,as an organism , we human beings must take food to maintain the certain functions of our bodys, taking foods becomes a burden theseday. fortunately, I have the ability to eat and by these means I survive.

appointment for monthly adjustment to my teeth for first time

I am so happy that the orthodontist said there was remarkable change taken place to my teeth, and later I found out my two lower incisors are almost arraying in the same line shoulder by shoulder! it is great!

有时候篮球给我带来很大的满足感和乐趣

sometimes, when I perform well in this game, basketball bring lots of funs to me, with the right people, at right time.
when I play basketball well, I feel that I almost can do anything, I am intoxicated when I realize that I own certain kind of talent ,haha, maybe it is just self satisfaction! who knows.
it seems that WangZhi always bring me good luck when he shows himself up in many occasions.who know! Just enjoy the fun of playing basketball, be health and keep good shape.

事物之间存在着各种紧密联系

万事万物互相联系在一起，每一个事物发生变化，都势必影响到别的事物。人不能把自己隔绝于自然界之外。
丧钟为谁而鸣？为你、为我而鸣！
没有可以幸灾乐祸的理由，因为发生在别人身上的事会直接或间接关联到你。
富人不愿理睬穷人的境遇，但因他们两者公用同一个生存环境，造成无法割舍的联系。
如果不控制监狱中犯人的传染病，他（她）们出来后势必会让正常人感染。欧洲的疯牛病能造成美国公民遭殃，从非洲或中国带到夏威夷某个小岛上动物会改变这个小岛上的生态群落。全球变暖不仅仅会威胁到北极熊的生存，地球的地理外貌会随之有明显改变，许多城市的居民的生活受到剧烈的影响。

everyting keep on changing

there are no certainty for anything, changing is the only certain thing we can confidently guarantee , so even the things around you seem boring, they are gradually changing in fact, and after a time period ,they will change to another form which you can not easily recognize.

我需要思考一下我目前的处境

这几天觉得很烦用英语写东西，觉得中文很亲切，用中文感觉像是从国外回到了日夜思念的祖国和家乡。有时候觉得用英文写东西怪怪的。
听说伊顿公司罗经理离开了伊顿公司，到别的公司做经理了，感觉这是一个很大的损失，他以前对我很好的，人真是的，只有在失去的时候才知道它的珍贵，如果他永远不离开的话，就绝不会有珍惜它的观念！
现在篮球水平在下降，是不是过了30岁，人的体质真的开始走下坡路了！！不过这是自然规律，是不能违抗的，一层不变怎么可能呢？
有一个女朋友，但是没有感觉，不知道这种情况是好还是坏。想一想，如果我的女朋友真的很漂亮，我就满足了吗？应该也不会吧。
我需要感受人生中很刺激，很亢奋的体验，否则人活着太没有意思了。

I am so happy that I can eat almost without dificulty

From Apr.1st till yesterday, I could not eat normally , today I found out that my teeth are not ache any more !! it is totally out of my expectation!!I realized it when I had my lunch this afternoon. I just finished my supper just now, and I ate lots of foods this time, however, I must be careful when I was chewing the vegetable,after all ,I haven't fully recovered yet, I must wait ,and I know my teeth will be aching again in the following 2 or 3 days every time after the orthodontist making an adjustment to the braces and arch wire. But for now, I am good, and three weeks need to be passed before I visit those dentist on Apr.30, I believe the condition of my teeth will get better and better during these period of time!

the feeling when a person has a talk with me is completely different from that when he just send you a email

maybe communication will be more efficient if a person not only sends a email to you ,but contacts with you by phone or actually meets you and chats with you face to face. when I receive somebody's email, I always feel numb and are not able to understand the true meaning underlying those sentences, and I tend to guess the implicit and subtle meaning of the sender , which is not bare true in fact.

the orthodontist should tell me something before this happened

I thought the orthodontic treatment will be completed without much inconvenience, but in fact it is not so simple, I realized it after three of my teeth being extracted,now I am not able to speak very clearly and I can only drink milk,fruit juices ,eat pumpkin mud, and I have other symptoms of infection or fever. if the orthodontist had told me what will happen ,maybe I can prepare for this situation earlier, but she just told me not to eat sticky and hard foods ,and not eat beef which may end up with residue stuck in gaps between my teeth.
maybe it is my fault, maybe the rest of my teeth do not work as well as the dentist anticipated, they are really ugly, crooked.

be a patient these days

because I am receiving an orthodontic treatment in XieHe hospital which is located in HanKou district of WuHan, HuBei province, three of my teeth were extracted on Apr. 1st,2008. In that particular morning, I showed up myself in the orthodontic faculty on time, I wore contact lens instead of glasses, I wish to make myself looked healthy and then the dentists can give me a better operation. my dentist is professor Long,who is about at her 50s with a pair of benevolent eyes. When I met her first time in her office, I didn't know anyone and didn't know how to behave in that scenario,how to let them know I want to get my teeth treated, then I heard a women's voice ,"what can I do for you ?",I turned my head to the direction from which the voice came, professor Long was wearing a white face mask,most part of her face were covered by the face mask except her eyes, She reminded me one of my friend's mum. I didn't know the procedure of orthodontic treatment, I naively thought the main work of correcting my teeth could be finished in a single day, then what I need to do after that is just to return there once a month,and after two years ,my tilted teeth will be straightened and the crowded teeth will aligned beautifully . In reality, there were several important steps needed to be done first, which I ignored before I heard the dentists mentioned they will pulled out three of my teeth first during the course of discussion which was made above my head with my mouth opened now and then as their commands.
Professor Long told me that those three teeth should be extracted before Friday, and since she works on Monday and Wednesday regularly, after the teeth were extracted, I could come back on next Monday or Wednesday as my will. She prescribed her prescription and then gave me a rectangular stainless steel tray with tools for removing teeth in it, I received the metal tray and was led by her to a nearby office where my teeth would be extracted .
what happened next could not be forgotten easier . A middle-age male dentist would extract those teeth in that day, the first one was pulled out in the morning , then the dentist told me that I had better not have the rest two teeth pulled out that day, he said if I had enough free time, I should have only one tooth removed each time, otherwise I will be uncomfortable. but I let him know I haven't much free time available , I pleaded him to completed all the works in that day , he agreed and told me come back in the afternoon.
the rest teeth were pull out in that afternoon, the operation was not proceed smoothly, these two teeth refused to be pulled out easily, so I must endure lots of pains . hammer and tweezers were used before these teeth surrendered finally.
On Apr. 2, I went to the hospital again, and made my sixth teeth separated from other teeth, then professor Long set the date for the next operation, it will be Apr. 9th,just one week later.
I am waiting for the coming of Apr.9th, now I find there are problems for chewing , I am only able to eat conjee,pumpkin mud ,doufu , drink milk,juices , etc. I know the feeling of the old people who have no teeth when they try to eat something, the foods are there, tempting you , but you can not eat them normally. today is tomb-sweeping day in China, I am out of duty, and tomorrow is Saturday , the day after tomorrow is Sunday, so I have three days for recovery before I go to work on next Monday. I powered off my cell-phone for I am not able to speak very clearly and it's not good for me to speak too much now. I only sent short messages to Lulu to let her know my condition in case her confusion. I also want to explain the reason why I powered off my cell phone to my family, but in the end I didn't call them.it's OK, I think.

a few pictures taken during the spring festival of 2007 - (6)

a few pictures taken during the spring festival of 2007 - (5)

a few pictures taken during the spring festival of 2007 - (4)

a few pictures taken during the spring festival of 2007 - (3)

a few pictures taken during the spring festival of 2007 - (2)

a few pictures taken during the spring festival of 2007 - (1)

a few thoughts of theses days

I really had a very good time with parents and brother in hometown during the spring festival which had just past, I was able to feel the importance of the establishing a family for a thirty-year old man, I was able to feel the harmony of my family and I could enjoy it just because Mom and Father got married about thirty five years earlier and established the family ,in which I was the the second son born thirty one years earlier.although Brother haven't got married, it should not be a excuse for me that I could wait for another four or five years to get married, if I have opportunity to get married.
During this spring festival , in some evenings of my holiday, when I walked in the old and familiar streets, I remembered many scenes happened long time ago during my life, which is really a long time, if thirty years is not a short time period, every corner of the street, every building, even every tree and small grass contribute themselves as experience and a component of my past life. these unforgettable scenarios and precious memories make a human being's life meaningful!

Our future ?

Lu lu and I met in front of the building where she lives, she wore artificial hairs which made her pretty, she didn’t wear glasses this time. We went to Yan hu park, the air temperature was still low, but there was sunshine which gave people in the park a cheerful feeling. Surface of most part of the lake was frozen, the ice layer was pretty thick, I know this because I had tried to stand on the frozen surface upon one of my legs, it really could bear the weight of my body!

We talked about something unimportant, exchanged a few opinions on some trivial issues, there were no obvious obstacles between us , a nice beginning ,I should say. We paid a quick visit to the little park, and finish the short trip and date.

Of course both my family and her family support our dating, they wish we could be together to ensure an engagement soon ,then marriage after certain period of time. Honestly speaking, I like her a little .dose she like me in some degree? I really don’t know.

In the afternoon, I went to Large Bird’s new apartment, it is located on the top floor of a new building nearby. When I arrived there, there were lots of people hailing to me from the balcony of his new apartment, at first, I didn’t know who they were ,because the crowd was far away from me, the distance between us was long. Later ,after I entered his apartment, I recognized most of them, and there were also visitors like me in his place. There were large space in the balcony, which was illuminated by the benevolent sunbeam. Large bird kept on speaking with his sister, while her parents , me and one of his relatives sat around, carefully listening to them and commented occasionally. Later I entered his bedroom where there were a broad bed and 2 PCs, with his permission, I checked my emails and replied some urgent ones. His apartment is about 115 square meters, the unit price is around 1750RMB per square meter, the installment will last for twenty years.

Big bird was in good condition, he is realistic and owns a peace of mind, he is managing his and his family’s life well, he has good relationship with his family and friends.

Go back home again

this year, I bought the railway ticket for go back home very early,thanks to Hou jianbo's notification(thank you jianbo), much earlier than last year, I still remember that I was not able to buy the railway ticket when I realized that I must get a ticket in order to go home last year.but it was too late at that time. fortunately, my colleague helped me to buy one ticket at the last moment, I should thank him , really.

there were not many people in the carriage of the locomotive , and because I was in a sleeper, so everything was OK, in the dusk of Feb 3, I arrived at hometown, my brother came to meet me at the railway station and mom had already been there when I and brother got out of the taxi. mom and I went home while my brother went to market to buy something for the supper. I met papa at home, It's a very glad thing that this family reunite again. it is August when I left home last time.

I gave my presents to my parents and brother, mom also gave me a gift, it is a suite of underwear.

my brother was surprised when he saw I brought a laptop with me home, and he tried the game installed in the laptop.

because there was not internet access point in my home , I am not expecting that I could use WWW at home, but to my surprise, my laptop really is receiving signal of wireless network connection from somewhere, it is indicated as an open TP-LINK, it is not stable, and the signal strength is very weak, but I really can connect to it and I am able to ,therefore, access to Internet intermittently. it is not bad! I also thank for this miracle !

today I and my brother went to a shop and bought a pair of trousers, at first my brother paid for me, but I returned the money back to him later, I don't want to spend brother's money.

today I also used the opportunity of getting access to Internet to chat with one of my colleagues via QQ. because my parents and my brother are worrying about my marital status - I am still single - they recommend me to think of dating with a girl who is working in the same company where I am working and who has also come back now in this holiday. I has very little contact with her, although I know her name and we actually went to Wuhan Dongfeng Stamping where we are working now at the same time , after we went to this company, we were distributed to the same working team in the same workshop, we had very little talk, we only talk when necessary. I don't know her , she don't know me ,either, I believe. I am confused now, I don't know whether we should begin to contact ,although both her family and my family support this contact or date.

street light & house aside street